Monday 30 April 2007

一刹那的浪漫 Short Romance – Part V


已经深夜了,电脑不停在重播几首玛莱亚。凯丽属于他俩的歌曲她睡不着。她还是很挂念他。
It was already late at night. She kept playing Mariah Carey’s songs using her laptop. Those songs were reflecting their story. She couldn’t sleep. She missed him very much.

虽然二人有缘无份开始这段感情,但就有如他在他博客说的:
Although both of them couldn’t start off the relationship, however just like what he mentioned in his blog:

思念一個人,不必天天見面,不必互相擁有或互相毀滅,不是朝思暮想,而是一天總想起他幾次。聽不到他的聲音時,會擔心他。一個人在外地時,會想念和他一起的時光。
It is not necessary to see someone even though you miss him / her, we don't have to mutual-possess nor mutual-destruct, it is not that you think about him / her every single minute of your life, but every day, the image of that person pops up on your mind. When you failed to hear its voice, you'd worry about him / her. When you spend time alone (especially in foreign lands), you'd miss the moments you've spent together.


她同感深受。
She agreed wholeheartedly.

犹记得他曾经承诺过她的东西,她牢牢记得,他是否已忘记了呢?
Still remember things that he promised her before, she remembered everything, was he already forgotten?

他说:等我有灵感时,我会为你写一首歌,旋律会类似某某歌曲。
He said: When I have the inspiration, I will write a song for you, the rhythm will be like this song.
她想:你真的会为我写歌吗?我好期待噢!
She thought: Are you really going to write a song for me? I am anticipating for it.

他说:你努力工作,你升职了,我会配副眼镜给你。
He said: Work hard. If you get promoted, I will present you a spectacles.
她想:我要细细黑框眼镜。
She thought: I want a thin blackly frame.

他说;你来我这儿,我会带你去玩耍。
He said: You come to my place, I will tour you around.
她想:听着先,但我很期待。
She thought: I listen first, but I am looking forward into it.

今晚她原先是打算打包去他那儿,但他那儿临时的改变促使她也更改原本计划。她会跟几位朋友上云顶。她心好酸。但她始终也不让他知道她的感受。
Actually that particular night she would have packed and drive to his place. However, an incident happened which caused she cancelled her plan and go to Genting with her friends. She was upset. However, she still kept the feeling within herself.

在他俩相识期间,他不时会电邮一些玛莱亚。凯丽的歌曲给她。
During their time knowing each other, he usually will send some Mariah Carey’s song for her.

其中包括了这首:不要忘记我们
One of them are: Don’t Forget About Us

Intro:
(Don't forget about us)

Don't baby, don't baby, don't let it go
No baby, no baby, no baby no
Don’t Forget About Us

don't baby, don't baby, don't let it go
My baby...boy

(Verse I)
Just let it die
With no goodbyes
Details don't matter
We both paid the price
Tears in my eyes
You know sometimes
It be like that baby (yeah)

(Bridge I)
Now everytime I see you
I pretend I'm fine
When I wanna reach out to you
But I turn and I walk and I let it ride
Baby I must confess
We were bigger than anything
Remember us at our best
And don't forget about...

(Chorus)
Late nights, playing' in the dark
And waking' up inside my arms
Boy, you'll always be in my heart and
I can see it in your eyes
You still want it
So don't forget about us

I'm just speaking from experience
Nothing can compare to your first true love
So I hope this will remind you
When it's for real, it's forever
So don't forget about us

(Verse II)
and they say
That you're in a new relationship
But we both know
Nothing comes close to
What we had, it perseveres
and people can't forget it
How big we used to get it
boy...
(Bridge II)
There's only one me and you
And how we used to shine
No matter who you go through
We are one, that's a fact
That you can't deny
So baby we just can't let
The fire pass us by
Forever we'd both regret it
So don't forget about

(Chorus)
Late nights, playin' in the dark
And waking' up inside my arms
Boy, you'll always be in my heart and
I can see it in your eyes
You still want it
So don't forget about us

I'm just speaking from experience
Nothing can compare to your first true love
So I hope this will remind you
When it's for real, it's forever
So don't forget about us

And at least she got your head all messed up now
That's that trickery
she'll wanna act like you know how this lovin' used to be (ah)
I bet she can't do it like me
She'll never be MC

Baby don't you, don't you
forget about...

Late nights, playin' in the dark
And wakin' up inside my arms
Boy, you'll always be in my heart and baby and
I can see it in your eyes
You still want it
So don't forget about us

I'm just speaking from experience
Nothing can compare to your first true love
So I hope this will remind you
When it's for real, it's forever
So don't forget about us........(oooh oh)


Late nights, playin' in the dark
And wakin' up inside my arms
Boy, you'll always be in my heart and
I can see it in your eyes
You still want it
So don't forget about us

I'm just speaking from experience
Nothing can compare to your first true love
So I hope this will remind you, babe
When it's for real, it's forever
So don't forget about us

Don't baby, don't baby, don't let it go
No baby, no baby, no baby no
don't baby, don't baby, don't let it go
when it's for real, it's forever
so don't forget about us.

记得他寄了这首歌给她,他告诉她: Don’t forget about us…
Yet, she remembered when the time he send her this song, he told her: Don’t forget about us…

结束
End

Friday 27 April 2007

一刹那的浪漫 Short Romance – Part IV


兜兜转转了那么久,他与她也有了更明确的结果。

她喜欢他,他没准备好接受任何人。她明了,她也决定了。她不会忘记他,可是会暂时把他放下。

爱情是需要两方面一起经营的,既然他暂时还没办法付出,她也不会在期待。

今天,她读了他的博客。她不晓得那篇文章是否是他为她而写的。如果是,她确实是被
感动了。她很肯定的,直至这一刻,她还是对他有感觉。她不懂这种感觉会维持多久,但很肯定的是她会捍卫着这感觉,不令它消失。纵使身边还是有异性出现,现阶段很肯定的她还不会去想那么多。

玛莱亚。凯丽(Mariah Carey)是他们的故事。他们都很喜欢她的歌。。

她不断问自己难道她真的是太执着了,偏爱一个不爱自己的人吗?

纵使在她身边,比他更好的异性多得,但她始终没改变她的信念。

因为世上就只有一个那么特别的他。

她很肯定的,此时此刻,她爱的是现实里的他,而不是回忆里的他。因为爱他,她准备包容他的一切一切。

身在远方的他又是否感觉到呢?

很多人说她很傻。她却不以为然。她有权力选择自己想享受的感觉。

她现在正听着玛莱亚。凯丽的永恒的爱(Endless Love)。。。

My love,
There's only you in my life
The only thing that's bright

My first love,
You're every breath that I take
You're every step I make

And I,
I want to share
All my love with you
No one else will do...

And your eyes
Your eyes, your eyes
They tell me how much you care
Ooh yes, you will always be
My endless love

Two hearts,
Two hearts that beat as one
Our lives have just begun

Forever
I'll hold you close in my arms
I can't resist your charms

And love
Oh, loveI'll be a fool
For you,I'm sure
You know
I don't mind
Oh, you know I don't mind

'Cause you,
You mean the world to me
Oh I know
I know I've found in you
My endless love

Oooh, and love
Oh, loveI
'll be that fool
For you,
I'm sure
You know
I don't mind
Oh you know-I don't mind

And, YES
You'll be the only one
'Cause NO one can deny
This love I have inside
And I'll give it all to you
My love
My love, my love
My endless love

Monday 23 April 2007

明星梦 - Becoming Stars

歌儿也有得唱:一人有一个梦想。。哈!相信每个人都有自己的梦想,但有多少人有真正为自己的梦想付诸行动呢?有些人用口讲,有些人不敢想,有些人敢讲敢想,但却没付出应该付出的。你又是那一类呢?

我有两位朋友毕生的梦想就是要成为明星。他们真的是有为自己梦想付出行动的典范。

(左图:迈向梦想就有如迈向自己的康庄大道,a SUNNY WAY)

其实我才认识他们也只有那短短的两个星期,但他俩对于梦想的热诚足以震撼我心。他俩都是大我一岁的双鱼座狮子座。(注1:感觉上用星座来做他们的代号会比较贴切) 。我自己本身也是在明星偶像试镜活动时遇上这两位朋友。想必也会成为我的好朋友。双鱼座是一个多才多艺的人,能跳,能唱,能演。当然唱歌是他最大的热诚。(注2:他曾经是两届大马偶像的75强噢!) 。狮子座也不逊色,一样可以载歌载舞,还能载演呢,整体看来还有明星相呢。(注3:他曾经是 Born Star的得奖者噢!)

他俩最震撼我的就是他们是那种真的为了梦想而到处寻找机会的人。那里有类似试镜活动,不管路途有多遥远,他们都一定会出席。为得就是不要放过每一个可以出线的机会。就有如今天,他俩竟然从老远的槟城乘4个小时多的巴士,为的就是要出席一个银行广告招募演员的试镜活动。还记得那天狮子座告诉我他已买了巴士车票,我真的给他吓坏了。我还告诉他。这都不知是什么试镜活动,值得你从老远的槟城过来吗?他告诉我:只要是机会,他都会试!

虽然他们花了四小时多,换回来的是每人两分钟多一点点的试镜,还得请我这位亮丽的司机小姐吃午餐,感觉上有一点点不值得,他俩尤其是狮子座似乎都不会放弃每一个试镜的机会。哈!坦白讲,我真的为他俩的精神,不屈不挠的热诚致万分的敬意。你们真的太棒了!加油!

(花絮1:当我正载他们往试镜目的地时,讨厌的臭轮胎竟然爆了,还好我当机立断截了一辆得士把他俩送去目的地。要不然因为我而令他俩迟到而试不到镜,我岂不是成了千古罪人。哈!
花絮2:有位面貌‘特出’ 的女孩试镜后,主办单位有拿她身体上的尺寸。双鱼座事后祟祟念:“为何他们没拿我的尺寸,我老远来到吉隆坡试镜,你竟然不拿我的尺寸。” 搞到我们哭笑不得!)


坦白讲:很多人都在追求或等待机会来圆自己的明星梦。也有很多人说发明星梦很不实际。
对我而言,世上没什么是实际不实际的,我也是发明星梦份子啊。我超爱演戏,超爱舞台。我常幻想自己将会是奥斯卡影后,金马奖影后等,因为我超爱演戏,我相信自己有一定的实力!何谓梦想:不是只在做梦时想噢!

人因梦想而伟大。但我不会等,当然半途出现贵人或伯乐将会把这梦想之路事半功倍,然而,我亦相信与其我去等待机会,不如我努力的去创造机会给自己!

梦想不是用口讲,而是真正要付出一定的行动,去实现它。

记得师傅曾经跟我讲过:“我们不可忘记我们的梦想,好多时候,在遇到一定的挑战时,很多人会延迟自己应达成的目标或试图妥协自己的梦想,记得,梦想是不能妥协的,就如你讲要在一年里要开宝马,就是一年里开宝马!”

师傅,我会牢牢记得的!追梦者,我会深深祝福你,加油!

Friday 20 April 2007

一刹那的浪漫 – Short Romance – Part III


又过了几天,他俩之间的感情从轰轰烈烈到现在的平平淡淡,她总算领悟了另一些东西。不开心时,抬头看看蓝色的天空。天还是那么的蓝,人生是多么的美好!

虽然他的出现曾经带过一丝丝幸福的感觉给她,然而,她还是感觉不到她要的安全感。曾经有人告诉她,她是一个超需要安全感的女人。她认同。

毕竟双鱼座的男人都会比较浪漫,但就不是那么稳重。所以
双鱼座的男孩最擅长说甜言蜜语。她则是人马座。她爱自由。她一直的信念也是这世上没说没有谁不能的。最终她还是得接受他与她是根本没办法开始,除非他真的认真看待这段感情。

所以那天他们又在网上聊天时,她感觉好轻松。就只是在跟一位十分谈得来的朋友畅谈。感觉还是很温馨,但已经不是那种男女之间的感觉。

当晚,她和大姐喝茶。或许她大姐给她的一席话提醒了她。

大姐说:“二十一世纪的女人一定要学习独立!不然男人会看不起你!”

大姐是一个在商场打滚十多年的女强人。当然她没告诉大姐她的‘小艳遇’

独立这两个字眼唤醒了她,她坚强的性格,她伟大的梦想,她她一直这么打拼的种种原因等。

她承认她累,她想找个肩膀。 而他跟她性格,嗜好又那么相似,怎不叫她对他有着那么浓厚的感觉呢?她醒了,因为 她根本没资格说累,因为她还未完成自己的责任。

此时此刻,她已下定决心把他成为自己的好好朋友。她也不会在对他有任何幻想,直到他给她一个肯定。

她很坚强。这世上是没有什么难倒她。昨晚,她很随性的传了个简单的简讯给在她心目中的另一个他,他回复了。。

Wednesday 18 April 2007

成功论 - Theory to Sucess

成长是做以前不会做的事;

改变是做以前不愿意做的事;

突破是做以前不敢做的事;

蓝海是想以前没想过的东西;

成功是做以前没做过的事!

只要脚步不停,新思维, 新思路,就有新出路,敢做敢想,

成功一定属于的!

一刹那的浪漫 – Short Romance – Part II


那天他俩都明白对对方的心意后,他们又在网上聊了起来。

Since that day they both knew the feeling towards each other, they chatted again online.

而令她感到最难过的是他根本没给她一个对于这段情具体的答复。令她感到患得患失。她试着很努力的维持着对这段情的感觉。因为她很清楚自己是一个超理性的人。他至今给她的感觉就是他不懂自己要的是什么。她也不懂自己能够为他持续这种感觉到多久。她虽然理性,却也很感性。她很相信自己的感觉。她怕的不是失去他,而是失去那种准备爱的感觉。因为她很久没爱过了。忙碌的生活,生活里的挑战这几年来都占据她的生活。

Obviously she was upset because he never gave her a clear reply towards the relationship. She felt like sometimes she owned him and vice versa. She tried to maintain the relationship because she was a super duper rational people. She felt like up-to-day; he wasn’t known what he wants. She didn’t know how long she still could maintain the feeling towards him. Although she was rational, yet she was also a sentimental person. She had faith in her feeling. She never afraid to lost him but she was too scare to lose the feeling to love. She had not been in love for long time ago due to the busy and challenging life.

爱是美妙的。她追求的也只是男女之间那种爱的感觉。但他对她,究竟有没有感觉,她也不懂。所以她已决定亲自去见他一面,在确定她对这段情的去向。

Love is beautiful. She was looking forward a feeling to love. She never knew how he felt towards her. Therefore she had decided rather than chatting online, she will see him face to face and talk about the whole relationship, and then she will reconsider what to do next.


无论如何,她还得继续生活。她还有责任去承担,诺言去履行。总不能老是在那‘莫名其妙’的爱情旋涡里。但为了不让自己忘掉那感觉,她决定每天都写一篇文章纪念他与她的一切。

Life goes on no matter what happens. She still has responsibility to bear, promises to realize. She cannot drop into a feeling for too long. To keep the feeling fresh in her mind, she had decided to write him 1 article daily.

一刹那浪漫是否会有续篇,就由天来安排了。。

Whether there will still be another story about the short romance, it’s up to god’s will..

Tuesday 17 April 2007

一刹那的浪漫 - Short Romance - Part I

人与人之间的感情有时真的很奇怪。他与她在一个很偶然的环境下相识。二人一拍即和。但他俩认识少过十二个小时,她对他已产生了一种莫名其妙的感觉。她不懂他怎么想,但她很肯定他已在她心中有了一个地位。

Human relationship always is something that unexplainable and unpredictable. He and She met each other one day. They used to be much closed to each other then. Although they knew each other less than 12 hours, she already felt something about him. She didn’t know how he felt, however, she already gave a space for him in her heart.

她现在还是单身,但在她身边还是围绕着一些所谓的追求者。然而她并没对他们产生任何的化学作用,不是他们不好,而是她就是对他们没感觉。她的理念很简单。她相信感觉,也相信一见钟情。茫茫人海中注定她遇上了他。

She was still single. And yet, there were guys whom surrounding her. Nevertheless, there was no chemistry among them. Not because they were not good enough, it was because the feeling was not there. Her ideology was simple. She believed in ‘feel’. She had faith in love at the first sight. It was destined that she met him.


二人相识只不过短短的一个星期,他们多数都以网络联络对方,因为他们一个住在北马,一个就住在中马。就在这么一天,二人在网上聊天,也不懂怎样搞的,二人都承认对对方都有感觉。她是一个十分理性的人,对感情也如此。她懂一段二人身在异处的感情不容易经营,但她更了解茫茫人海中,要找寻一个跟自己那么合拍的人并不简单,她坚持了。然而,她绝对明白他对这段感情还有保留,所以她也不要他做出任何决定,她希望他可以想清楚了才来做决定。最起码这是对他俩二人最公平的方法。

Both of them knew each other about 1 week. Normally, they would contact each other by using MSN Messenger. One of them stayed in northern part of Malaysia and the other one stayed in center part of Malaysia. There was a day while both of them were chatting with each other; they admitted they actually had some special feeling towards each other. She was a very rational person, even in handling lovey-dovey issue. Therefore, she clearly knew that it was not easy to maintain a long distance relationship; however, she knew that it was also not easy to find somebody who was so match with her personality. Yet, she insisted. Still, she knew he was slightly conservative towards long distance relationship; hence, she didn’t want him to make any decision. She rather he thought a million times before starting off the relationship. This was only a way which was fair to them both.

纯纯的她很怀念他俩之间所发生的一切,从一个拥抱,到一个简讯,,一通电话,一个网上聊天框框等。对于这段感情是否可以展开,她并没抱着任何希望。但她唯一没遗憾的,就是让他懂她的感受。这一刹那的浪漫,感觉真的很不错!

No matter how, she would still keep all the memories between them both. From a friendship hug, till a SMS, then a call, a conversation in MSN etc.. She didn’t put much hope whether this relationship would spark or worked out. 1 thing she wasn’t regretted, she had tell him how she felt about him. Although it was a short romance, the feeling was really sweet.

朋友们,对于异处恋情,你的看法如何?欢迎你们留下宝贵的意见,以供我们一些异处恋情人参考。感恩!

Friends, what do you think about Long Distance Relationship? I welcome your opinions, at least it will be a good reference for our friends who are currently in the same condition. Thanks!

Thursday 12 April 2007

2007马来西亚明星偶像 StarIdol Malaysia- 我一路走来的过程 My Journey









我一直以来都很热爱表演,热爱舞台。我不断寻找机会,平台,以让自己好好在台上表演,以让别人感受我在台上的风采。也正因如此,我参加了马来西亚第一次举办的明星偶像。原本,我也没抱着太大期望,就是不想让自己有遗憾,所以我去了试镜。不懂是我的诚意追求梦想的意愿感动了上天,抑或我真的可以演戏,我成功闯进了第二关。犹记得,在第一关卡的试镜时,我是饰演一个疯狂追星妹,我也充分发挥了我自己在这一方面的天分。因为我呢,有时就好像傻大姐那样。哈!评审说我的自我介绍像辩论,整体看来很老江湖。衣着打扮也很老江湖,必须改进。还好我一贯的作风就是我无任欢迎别人对我的意见,不管是好的贬的,我都会打开心窗,一一接受并研究那里可以加以改进。或许这也是一个做人瞒成功的地方吧。

当时我闯进了第二关,兴高采烈的把消息告知我最疼爱的双亲,怎知双亲的反应并不是那么正面,也表示娱乐圈并不是好混。还好从小相依为命的弟弟还表示支持,加上一些好朋友的鼓励,令我更有勇气走下去。

由于我对衣着打扮没那么深的见解,因为平时的我就是职业女性典型式打扮。所以在第二圈比赛的前两天,赶紧拉着好友为我塑造剧本里我所饰演的JANE的形像。JANE外表成熟高贵, 充满女人风情,在性格上呢则是倔强好胜, 骄傲,霸道。那么坦白讲,无论是剧情或角色,都瞒与我相似。除了一点,就是我没那么霸道。

大从闯过第一个关卡,我都很期待第二关卡的到来。终于,我结束了明星偶像的第二圈比赛。疲累的我,刚卸下脸上的浓妆,享受了十分舒服的热浴,但还是睡不着。想想刚才评审说我脸上的妆像发了霉的巧克力,然而,我一点都没被打击到。反之,我瞒享受评审称赞我很有天分当一个主持人。还有评审也说我在打破烟灰冈的临场表现是一件可喜的事。哈。我在演戏时打破一个玻璃烟灰冈就是我整个演出的经典。其实呢,那个动作是我在临场表演时加上去的。因为当时当我拿起烟灰冈打昏了那个男演员的时候,我就想应该怎样处置那个烟灰冈,又没有可能在情绪那么高昂的时候,把烟灰冈放在地上或摆回原位,所以就干脆把它当作不小心掉在地上了。

那晚,我还是很期待个天的赛果。但我告诉自己,既然尽了全力,无论入选20强与否,我都会坦然面对。我想:“若我侥幸入围了,我会感恩,若我落选了,我也没遗憾,反之我会感谢上天已给了我这个机会,或许自己还没准备好,等我准备好了,上天自有安排。”

我告诉自己,无论如何,我还是会无时无刻还是会怀念一路走来的过程。。。
终于到了成绩揭晓的那天。我也没抱着太大的希望。毕竟我也懂这是明星偶像比赛,无论演技多好多棒,多有实力,但没有好的面孔,机会仍然还是五十五十。

就在成绩公布前,哈,我就跟其他明星偶像参赛者打成一片。有槟城的啦,还有柔佛的,当然也少不了吉隆坡的。他们的嘻哈声足以震动这个STUDIO. 当然多嘴的我又刚好碰上了槟城来的荣显。二人一见如故,说个七呖呱啦。弄得差不多1/4场人笑个不停。各位朋友,如果你在节目上看到这个场面,别怀疑,这二人就是此二人。哈。

当然成绩揭晓了,我没入围。与我对戏的夥伴-一粒米也没入围。坦白讲,我的确有些失望。但在后来,当评审,工作人员,一些演舞台剧参赛的朋友,还有其他参赛者所给的评语,都以证明我是有实力的。我总算有些安慰。

明星梦结束了。又回到了平日的生活。

我要借此谢谢一些在整个过程中为我加油打起的人。

爸,妈:
虽然你们从来没支持过,你们也没强烈反对。谢谢你们让我参赛。

弟:
是你最支持我了。姐让你失望了。但姐还是会向梦想前进。

Bryant,进民,Ivy, Gallen:
谢谢你们陪我练习,陪我做Role Play. Bryant, 你的导演技术还不赖。

Elaine 大姐,雪盈:
谢谢你们在我演出的服装还有整体的包装给予的意见。

征豪师傅:
解谢你帮我寻找专师交我演戏。也谢谢你一直给机会我,要不然我绝对不会拥有今天主持的水准。

Jason:
虽然只跟你通了一通电话,但我真的学到了很多演戏技巧。

Tiffany:
谢谢你那天陪了我一个晚上。

一粒米:
与你排档演戏是我的福份。谢谢你在比赛前一天给予的指导。很开心认识你,希望可以在与你合作。记得有Kalefe演叫我。

荣显:
想不到能与你一见如故。好开心认识你。那天我真的玩到傻了。

嘉洋,诗蕾,雪婷,Sharen, Kel, Amelia, Annie:
很开心认识你们。真的。。

人因梦想而伟大,朋友们,加油!



Friday 6 April 2007

四个战友的故事 - Peers


Start from left: Ah Loon, Ah Feng, Ah Min and Ah Lin in The Best Idol - Gala Dinner, Jan 2007, Flamingo Hotel grand ballroom

Start from left: Ah Loon, Ah Feng, Ah Lin and Ah Min
in a Convention, August 2006, Berjaya Times Square Convention Room

突然间很想谈这四人的故事。其实实在很久很久这四人没同台了。哈!别误会,我所谓的台是讲师台。那四人又是谁呢?就是有才华横溢的阿民,脑袋精明的阿伦,温柔体贴的阿琳,当然也少不了活泼可爱的阿枫。

There is a sudden feeling that I would like to tell you a story on these four peers. It’s due to it’s had been some time they didn’t perform in a same stage. Well the stage that I mean here is the speaker stage. Then who are the FOUR? Ha.. they are very talented Ah Min, smart Ah Loon, soft and tender Ah Lin and of course the active cutie Ah Feng.
犹记得当年在念博大的时候,四个小黄毛还是嫩嫩的。阿民,阿伦和阿枫虽然同住一个宿舍,认识对方,但纯属那种见面说声‘嗨’,再见说声‘拜’ 的朋友。阿琳呢则住在令一个宿舍。但他们的宿舍都很靠近。

Back to the times when these four still pursuing studies in UPM, though Ah Min, Ah Loon and Ah Feng were staying in a same hostel, however, they merely knew each other, shall say they were only the ‘Hi-Bye’ type friend. Ah Lin was staying in another hostel but it’s adjacent to the three’s hostel.

阿民热爱歌曲创作,所以在念大学的时候已是民歌餐厅注唱歌手。阿枫则是宿舍活动的活跃分子,宿舍华团大姐大。阿伦和阿就比较低调,为人简单,但志气并不小。毕竟他们两人也是同科系的,所以两人性格也比较相近。

Ah Min loved music and yet he can compose his own song. Therefore, he was a café’s singer. Ah Feng was an active type of girl. She joined lot of hostel’s activity and also the head of Chinese community in her hostel. Then Ah Loon and Ah Lin were more low profile compared with Ah Feng and Ah Min. They were simple type of person, still, they had their own goals in life.

但在一个机缘巧合之下,他们的学长阿程,把他们四人一一带入一个事业,从此把他们四人撮合在一起,差出了非凡的火花。随着他们在事业蓬勃发展,而阿民和阿枫是最热爱舞台,所以他俩都慢慢的在事业说明会当了主持人和分享者。阿伦和阿琳就比较低调,都是比较多负责幕后的工作。但重点是这四人从来没有同台合作过。一年后,他们四人已各奔前程,四人与学长阿程加入了另一个事业。但四人合作已久,彼此都决定跟随新的资深事业夥伴。同台合作的机会更是渺茫了。

I shall say it’s god arrangement that the Four were brought into a business in the same time by their senior Ah Chen. And because of this, they achieved great results. Ah Min and Ah Feng were more to the stage presenter whereas Ah Loon and Ah Lin were more at the back end. Though they were carving in the same business, however, they never had a chance to work with each other in a business presentation. 1 year later, the Four finally dismissed. They follow their senior Ah Chen venturing into another business. And four of them agree that they were going to collaborate with new senior partner instead of the original four. As a result, it was quite impossible for them to work with each other in a business presentation.

直到昨晚,这四人竟然在不被安排的情况之下在同一场事业说明会第一次合作。阿伦就负责音响。阿民临时被安排是讲师之一。而阿枫是到了会场就被安排成为当晚的主持人。而那时候还缺少一位产品分享者,阿枫就毫不犹豫也把阿琳摆上去。还好四人默契仍在,也把昨晚的会场办得很好。很多以往的感觉都回来了。

Until last night, the four was arranged to conduct the business presentation. This was the first time for the Four to collaborate with each other. Ah Loon was the sound man, Ah Min was the speaker, and of course Ah Feng was the professional emcee. Nevertheless, at that moment, they still lack of one person to do the product sharing. Without thinking twice, Ah Lin was shortlisted as the best product sharing candidate by Ah Feng. The best thing was there was a connection between the Four. And they successfully conducted the business presentation. It was just marvelous.

阿枫当晚感触最深。她感恩上帝都把最好的回忆给了她,也赐给他三位相知相惜的夥伴。她也祝福他的三位夥伴事业马到成功,步步高升!
Ah Feng was the one who felt the most of the happening. She thanked god for giving her the best memories ever, and thanked god for granting her the 3 peers. She wished her 3 peers all the best in the business, leading them to success and prosperity!

Tuesday 3 April 2007

没有不能,只有怎样 - No Impossible, Only How

转眼间,新的一年又来了。让我们再次欢呼-2007年快乐!!

我有位已经破产的朋友就在昨天我们见面时说了这么一句话-没有不能,只有怎样。

一开始,我有点抓不到他要表达的意思。经他一番解释后,才晓得他在三个月前从一名专业人士转为一名传销商。他习惯在每年的最后一天看回自己在一年内所做的东西。那么,在全职从事传销三个月,他有了很大的体会。他告诉我他做传销做到破产了。原来他的破产并不是真正的破产。而是他现在在他传销事业所赚的都不够他花。有时甚至要倒贴抑或动用自己早前的储蓄。

那么,我就很得意的、心直口快的叫他放弃了。怎知他就送了我这局话- 没有不能,只有怎样。他说他是真正看到了他这家销公司才打算全职。经过了三个月的磨炼,他终于懂得什么叫辛苦。好多时候他都一直抱怨自己,抱怨别人,抱怨种种的不公平,但他都没好好检讨过自己,所以事事都不称心如意。自从他认识了一些完全不会给自己借口的人后,他自己有了一个启发。他常抱怨的苦根本就算不了什么。从此之后,每当他遇到什么困难,他也会停执抱怨,他都会不断问自己应该怎样解决这困难。就像他现在这样从事着这门事业,他知道要在短期内赚取别人在几十年赚取的,要付出的也十分多。他也向我透露了他这回已是无翻身的余地,除了做就是做。从他那眼神,我知道他这回真的是破釜沉舟了。但我并不担心,因为我知道他一定可以做到。只要他要!

尤记得去年的某一天,我看他出了一些状况。但令我惊讶的就是换做以前的他,他一定会大发雷霆,要不就不停祟祟念。这次他竟然可以很冷静的想他要怎样解决面对着的挑战。

看着他的改变,我会永远祝福他。我想在这我很想与大家分享他的座右铭-没有不能,只有怎样。各位朋友,记得什么时候,不管事情有多恶劣,只要专注于怎样解决问题,好多问题其实也不是问题。人总是要向前看,而不可老是向后望。过去就是过去,把握现在和展望未来才是我们真正需要做的。

快乐与满足 - Happiness and Satisfaction

好多时候,快乐都是来自不同的满足感。就好比自己达成了某些目标。那么,在达成某些目标的过程里, 难免会有一些自认不公平的待遇。好多人也因此不快乐。
There are times that happiness also can come from different satisfactions. Just like when you are fighting your goals or targets. However, while you are in the process of achieving your goal, there are also times that you will face a lot of injustice situation. And therefore, there are lots of people not very happy about that.

举例:有些人看到某些人不需付出那么多,但得到的却来得比自己多。难免心理会有些不平衡。直到最近,我对于这个情况有了一个很深体会。凡事不计较,全力以赴, 自然而然就会有了所谓的满足感,快乐也会跟随着。为何要常常执着于公平与否?那是多么的浪费时间,整日愁眉苦脸,倒不如用那些时间做更有生产力的事,快快乐乐的过日子。
For example: some people may not need to work as hard as you are, however, seems like he/she may get more than you. Therefore, there will be times that you feel the unbalance. Until recently, I have a thought that I would like to share. By being not so calculative, do everything full force with an open mind, very obviously, it will instill the satisfaction within you. And therefore, happiness will automatically follow you. Do not be too hard headed pertaining to the unfairness of the world. It’s really wasting our time, and leading us to unhappiness, why not we fully utilize our time for something more productive rather than sitting there and sorrowing. Let’s live a happy life.

快乐与满足其实真的可以相提并论的:)
For conclusion, happiness and satisfaction actually are coming together in our lives