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Sunday, 14 October 2018

Competitive Uniqueness of Malaysians

I came across this video about the speech from former International Trade and Industry Minister Tan Sri Rafidah Aziz, and I have some thoughts to share.

Malaysia roots in multiculturalism and it is formed by three major races, Malay, Chinese and Indians, plus some ethnic minorities. We have learned to how to respect and live in multiculturalism for decades since our independence from the British Empire in 1957 and formally formed Malaysia with Sabah and Sarawak in 1963. Although the majority of Malaysian are Muslim, still all races are living harmoniously for decades. Malaysia has its all to become the most liberal and democratic Islamic country in the world.

We have an interesting education system. Whenever I share how the education during my time with my friends here in the UK, they are always amazed how this works. Look, when I was in primary school, I learned everything in Chinese apart from the Malay and English language studies because I went to a Chinese public school. Then when I was in the secondary school, I learned everything in Malay. And later when I was in University, I learned everything in dual language, English and Malay. My education experiences literally shock my friends here as they wonder how this could work. Simple, this is our culture. We have the same syllabus but different delivery. Ha! And because of this, I am proficient in three languages, Chinese, Malay, and English. I have no problem picking up a new language, given the sufficient time to learn as I am used to this environment. I have been trained since my early years to be flexible and adaptable to different languages. After living abroad for years, I would say this is the most competitive uniqueness of Malaysians. I can still recalled the time when I was doing my PhD in a UK University where some of my friends are from the middle east, and I felt welcomed in their community because as a Malaysian, I understand the Islamic norms. Same with my Chinese speaking friends from mainland China and Taiwan, just because I speak the language and understand some Chinese literature to a certain extent.

All and all, I feel that for a new Malaysia to progress (after the historic election on 09 May 2018 where we changed the government for the very first time) to be a great nation in the world, we somehow have to be a Malaysian. By that saying, the Malaysian values are being respectful to each other, being selfless and not keep playing the race card (unfortunately some of the political parties still do in Malaysia), and really appreciate the uniqueness being a Malaysian.


Sunday, 20 July 2014

Personal Best and PhD

Best thing comes when you least expecting it! 


And using my personal best achievement to motivate myself for the PhD!




Thursday, 9 December 2010

Fever. Cold. Flu

I have a presentation on my dissertation project tomorrow..and yet i am having fever, cold and flu since last two days.

I spent most of my time, laying on bed and trying to memorise the words..

I think medicine has lost function on my illness anymore. Now I am praying hard that at least let me have the capability to talk tomorrow. I can still present although I am ill.

Random thought '如果有一天,我学会不在跟人比较,把自己做好,我觉得那天就是我真正变成一个开心人了'


Monday, 6 December 2010

Keep Going! The unlucky one!



I never MOAN that I am always being the unlucky one!
I never BLAME anyone when things are not quite going in a right way!
I never EXPECT anyone for comfort, support or symphatise!
If things can turn around in an opposite way, it is a BONUS for me!
Keep going! The unlucky one!



PS: I thank the one from above for always showing me a way when I am down. He destined me to meet someone, to see something that reminding myself not to give up easily!

6 Dec 2010: I saw this clip on facebook!




2 Dec 10: Wayne Lai talked about his success

I watched this on youku. Wayne is one of my favorite tvb artist since I was a teenager. Remembering that time he wasn't the first line actor, always on second or third line. He started off as TV extra.
I remembered that time I told my mom, this guy has fabulous acting skills, why he just can't be as famous as the others?
Mom said, because he is not good looking enough!
But after 20 years working hard in TVB, because of one of the latest tvb drama and he has a good character in it, now he is one of the famous tvb stars!
So, never give up! Opportunity comes for those who are prepared. Whether how long the time frame, no one will know. But never ever give up!
Was blogging about him before :)

Tuesday, 16 November 2010

I feel for you, MW!

After reading the article and watching the interview Mark Webber had with BBC, I seriously feel for him.



I quoted two statements he made.

"I'm feeling a bit low but that's inevitable with sport, you put a lot into it and you don't quite get the absolute fairytale result."
Not only sport, but it is same for life! There is not such formula saying that: Effort = Result. Somehow you just need a little bit of luck.

"You have to go away and recharge and that's when the normal desire starts to fire up again. When you get the desire and motivation to come back and compete that's the most important thing."
I have been fading away from my circle of friends (well, not a big group but quite a figure in the past), flee to somewhere, well, not new to me, but at least I can ran away from attention, and now I almost finish my study, it's seriously time to face the reality again. I have to be very honest to myself, I couldn't run away anymore. The expectations are there! Damn it!


Thursday, 4 November 2010

To my dearest Chekie

I am caught in fever today. It is quite hard to focus on work, however, there are some random thoughts come across my mind. And I would like to dedicate it to myself. But feel free to share across if you find my thoughts helping.

It is autumn now.. Standing there, looking at the blue blue sky and thinking what is next?

As I am finishing my MSc soon, there are seriously loads to think about, something that I couldn't run away anymore. What I want to do etc. Of course I always have my master plan in mind. However, there are lessons learn along the way and I may have to keep my master plan flexible. That's why when people are asking how do I live my life now, I say I have a Agile lifestyle now.

1. Being an opportunist - There are opportunities every where. It is pretty much depends on whether you are ready or not. For an opportunist, he/she can turn every thing into an opportunity, for example turning a rock to a diamond. So never ever give up when you miss one opportunity. Coz sometimes it is not because you are not good enough, there may be some other reasons.

2. 'Release Management' 1 - I am not talking about software release management. But it is about how to release ourselves from unhappiness and stress in an appropriate way. Some said I always know how to make myself happy. I sing a lot. Karaoke isn't popular here compare with KL. So I use to put on songs on youtube and sing along. Retail therapy, yeah, sometimes, can't afford much with my current financial situation. Eating, oh yes! Especially the tomyum soup! Tomyum soup always make me smile. The other day a friend of mine was asking why can I feel contented with a small bowl of cereal. I said why not? When you are alone in a foreign land, every single thing, a simple meal means something for you. Thus, I have learnt how to appreciate my family, friends and whatever I am having now more!

3. 'Release Management' 2 - Here I would like to define it as letting go when I have to! Not sure about others, the more I want something to happen, usually it won't happen. However, when I keep working hard and do what I have to consistently, sometimes things just happen. It has proven in my 'track record'. Ha! It applies to all, regardless career or relationship. There is seriously no point to push things to happen. It happens when it has to happen. You never know. Therefore, never stress myself in any situation.However, it is always important that you have played your role well. Ie: as a student, you have to study well; as an employee, you have to think on how to contribute for the company sucess; as someone's partner, you have to be a good one, always be there for him whenever he needs you.

3. Damn you ego, but not too humble as you are just faking yourself - I have met with loads of different people varying from businessmen, professionals, academics, less literate, etc. I always notice that those very success people have almost zero ego, they are usually humble and very genuine. This is something I am learning. I serious dislike people especially those who always think they are always right, and faking themselves when being too humble.

4. Discipline and persistency - Whenever you have decided, write it down on a post it notes, look at it every day and stick to it! It is pointless to keep repeating something ie your goals, your commitment etc without really action on it.

5. Love myself - You are the owner of yourself. Life is too short for being depressed all the time. I know there is an obstacle hidden deep inside that you have to go through, take your time but make sure you are happy always. I wish you can smile from your heart one day!

Seems like I am now talking these to myself. Ha! Right, my Chinese herbal tea is getting cold now. My body temperature has not fully subsided.

I wish a better tomorrow for myself. Every day is a brand new day!


Wednesday, 11 August 2010

Sunday, 13 June 2010

Completed 0.5 peak out of 3 peaks challenge

This is my first time camping in UK (Yorkshire Dale). Thanks SJ for tagging me along :p

A night before. Simple barbecue. Single use disposal barbecue tray. First time seeing it though. Thanks to SW for bringing it :)


Horrible face!


Our tents


I find this tent is quite interesting!


First stop, having my ‘brunch’ in Pen-y-Ghent café, ‘a pint mug’ coffee, 2 croissants and a book with me.


Start having fun by taking pictures of myself by setting the self timer of my camera.


My camping equipment. A Tesco plastic bag with 2 croissants, 500ml water, a broly, and a book. In fact, an old man keeps calling me the girl with a tesco plastic bag :S

I was on the way hiking up to Pen-y-Ghent. Honestly I had no plan to do hiking that day. I was actually with my friends. They were hiking with their company mates. I clearly understood that I wasn’t fit enough for this hiking, so I decided to stay on my own, enjoying the sun and peace. I had no idea how I found the hiking route. So I decided to take videos as a memoir of Chek doing her first hiking on her own.









Done with my self reflection! Feel happy!


Mission accomplished!

I have a good weekend though. I consider it as another breakthrough for myself. I never do hiking on my own. Moreover, I don’t have any right equipment with me, no map, no compass, no clue etc. However, I enjoy the peace along the hiking journey.

I do self reflection when I was arrived at the half peak. What I shall conclude is we will never know our potential until we really push for it. My friends said that sometimes I may be too harsh for myself. Yes, I do! My philosophy is simple. I cannot have expectation on anything or anyone but myself. That is the only way to keep pushing me further.

Do check more pictures on my facebook! :)


Tuesday, 8 December 2009

时机

经过了这么多事情,我觉得真的没有什么所谓的时机对还是不对。

凡事都看得很开,每天就是把应该做的事做好

never take time as granted

当我觉得我务必要把事情完成,我就不会拖.因为我不懂明天会发生什么事

活在当下,那么每时每刻都是好时机。

Tuesday, 13 October 2009

人就只活那么的一次!

人因梦想而伟大!



就算困难重重,都不要轻易言弃!



人就只活那么的一次!



太有意思了!

Monday, 6 October 2008

顺风顺水

今天没什么特别想写,除了天气变化无常,我开始穿三层出门。。真的包到像粒球那样。。

然后在公司也开始很忙碌,偶尔去厕所或吃饭的时候就会忙里偷闲通过小B向大马的诸位好友诉苦。。(人都应该要有适当的发泄),虽然他们都不大理我,我也了解,大家都忙,而且还有时差。。

今天开了三个会,每个会都有两三样东西要跟进。。不是我吓你。。如果我的TO DO LIST是可以公开的,你肯定会晕倒。。因为我也差点晕到。。

真的有很多事情要处理。。

我今天最大的领悟:

人的一生,不可能顺风顺水。 有危必会有机。 每一个危机都是一个学习的机会。凡是不是得到就是学到。


小安心情指数:略差

Wednesday, 21 May 2008

Meaningful Wesak Day

Last Monday was Wesak day yet I didn’t went worshipping in any temple as I am not that familiar about Klang Valley area.

However, that day turned to be a very meaningful day for me…Some realization I would like to blog here:

Realization 1:

As usual, I went to gym in morning. Despite meeting a very cute instructor in Body Combat class, I had tried my 1st Body Pump class in True Fitness, Jaya 33. I never thought that I can finish all tracks although I was carrying the most 4kg weight. And I realize that at that moment, stamina actually came second, what come first was the Focus and Determination. Same as when I am doing anything, the most

Realization 2:

At night, there was a slight shake in my apartment. And I experienced what is so called: Run for your Life! I am staying in top floor, together with the others, we expel ourselves from the emergency staircase….That night I really learn how to appreciate for being alive

Realization 3:

The next day after Wesak day, I randomly read a blog from a anonymous and sharing you the excerpt I felt meaningful:

“Today while queuing to buy a subway sandwich, there's this man standing in front of me, probably in his mid 40s, very tanned, wearing a Powerman T-Shirt, and young man probably his nephew. While waiting for my turn, i can’t help listening to their conversation. His nephew just doesn’t understand why his uncle at his age wants to make his life so miserable by joining all this triathlon events. I can totally relate to that cause majority of people don’t understand the pleasure of completing a race or triathlon, not to mention about the adrenaline, phhheeww. So to his reply, he said 'We only live once, so make the best out of it, look at the people around you, they're like Rats!! go to work, off from work, get married, make babies, and the best of all, pay their of their debts til they day they die, caused the debt grows bigger and bigger. They're not living life. They're just robot doing their routine that agreeable and acceptable by the society, if we do this (go university, get good career, climb the corporate ladder, get married, make babies, make money, pay bills) then you will be accept by the society and wont get criticized. I chose to live life!!”

In life, sometimes we are being forced to do something we don’t like because we need to survive. However, is it the only reason why you are not living your life. I personally think that it is pretty much depends on how you choose to live your life.

Live your life cool! Live my life cool!!!!

Wednesday, 16 May 2007

相信 - Believe

相信,让我们走在一起;

相信,让我们度过风雨;

相信,让我们创造奇迹;

相信,让我们坚持至今;

相信,让我们面对自己;

相信,让我们调整自己;

相信,让我们没有妥协;

相信,让我们鼓起勇气;

相信,让我们再次前进;

相信,让我们梦想实现;

相信,让我们奇迹在显;

相信,让我们高峰相见;

相信

拥有相信, 天下任由你飞行!

(摘自:甘师父之赢家坚信论)

Wednesday, 18 April 2007

成功论 - Theory to Sucess

成长是做以前不会做的事;

改变是做以前不愿意做的事;

突破是做以前不敢做的事;

蓝海是想以前没想过的东西;

成功是做以前没做过的事!

只要脚步不停,新思维, 新思路,就有新出路,敢做敢想,

成功一定属于的!